| What man hasn't experienced the heartbreak of | | | | you're absolutely certain is going to report back to |
| having the perfect woman suddenly lower the | | | | her - and make sure that person gets your new |
| boom and walk out on him? There are three | | | | phone number to pass along! |
| steps you can take to win her back if you really | | | | This part of the hunt is fun - you know you're |
| want her. This is a plan that targets a woman | | | | hunting, but she doesn't know she's the prey. |
| where she's most vulnerable - her curiosity - and | | | | Don't be such a recluse now - get out and about |
| can incite jealousy as well! You will be on her mind | | | | a bit more, go to places where you're likely to |
| even if she was sincere about the breakup, and | | | | encounter her friends. Her friends will be inquisitive |
| she won't rest until she's satisfied the curiosity | | | | and will want to find out all about what you're up |
| you've triggered. It's happened to all of us - we | | | | to - and who you're doing it with. Tell them no |
| believe we're in a great relationship when all of a | | | | more than you need her to hear - you're in |
| sudden BOOM! - she dumps you and walks out. | | | | charge of the flow of information now. Suggest |
| There are three steps you can take to win her | | | | that you're spending time with someone, but don't |
| back if you really want her. This is a plan that | | | | let it sound important. Be patient now - it may |
| targets a woman where she's weakest - her | | | | take a number of such chance encounters with |
| curiosity - and can incite jealousy as well! Curiosity | | | | her friends before she gets enough accounts that |
| killed the cat, and it's going to drive her nuts as | | | | you're really doing better without her to believe. |
| well, as she tries to figure out what's going on. | | | | It's just a matter of time! |
| To begin, vanish from the face of the earth. | | | | The first time you see her acknowledge her |
| Seriously - she can't see you or hear from you, | | | | nicely, give her a light kiss on the cheek and talk |
| and neither can her friends. When she hasn't | | | | briefly about general things - acquaintance talk, |
| heard from you for a while, she'll try to contact | | | | not personal or intimate. Be nice and polite, but |
| you or at least find out what's going on. You're | | | | don't come across as possessive. At some |
| not having anything to do with her friends, so | | | | point, ask her if she has the same phone number |
| you're covered there, but you've also got to | | | | and tell her you'll call sometime to meet for |
| make sure your own friends know not to give | | | | coffee and a chat. Now is a crucial moment - time |
| her any information about you at all. You've got | | | | to walk away. Continue about your business and |
| some time on your hands now, but don't waste | | | | don't look back, not even from a distance. Tell |
| it. You've got to make some changes in your | | | | yourself she isn't there. |
| own life: try getting a new wardrobe that gives | | | | Let a week or two go by before you call her, and |
| you a new look, change your hairstyle, lose some | | | | invite her to a nice place for coffee, or maybe |
| weight if needed (but if weight loss is part of | | | | lunch. It should be a popular place, but not one |
| your approach, don't change wardrobes until | | | | you've taken her to before. Make certain you |
| you've reached your goal!), join a gym and get | | | | don't get a secluded table - it should be out in the |
| into the habit of working out regularly . . . in short, | | | | open in a relatively crowded area. The only thing |
| perform a makeover on yourself, major or minor, | | | | you shouldn't talk about is your feelings (and |
| it's up to you. Moving might be too much to ask, | | | | hers), and your history together. You're still |
| but you can certainly get new telephone | | | | hunting, remember, and she's still your quarry - |
| numbers. The whole objective of this is that | | | | you have to get her completely at ease and |
| when the time comes for her to start getting | | | | relaxed. This meeting isn't the time to pounce, |
| news about you, and starts seeing you herself, | | | | it's still for enticing her with the enigma. Whatever |
| you've obviously changed, and for the better. | | | | she's been thinking during your meal together, any |
| And this is important - she has to believe that the | | | | fears she might have had about you trying to get |
| breakup was the catalyst for this positive change | | | | her to take you back haven't been realized. |
| in your life. | | | | Paradoxically, she might be thinking that you're |
| Some time has elapsed now, and it's time to set | | | | going to try to cram it into your goodbye, so |
| the next stage of the plan into motion. It's time | | | | stay cool! Walk her out like the gentleman you |
| to emerge from the cocoon and let people see | | | | are, kiss her lightly on the cheek, and tell her you'll |
| the butterfly you've become, but you've got to | | | | call again. When you walk away this time, it's |
| handle the operation carefully to get the best | | | | appropriate to take a few steps, pause, glance |
| result. The first step in showing off the new you | | | | back over your shoulder and, if she's watching |
| is to invite a select group of friends to a | | | | you, give a little smile and wave - and then |
| get-together at your place. Nothing big, mind you | | | | continue walking away. |
| - this is like the preview of a movie, where only | | | | Your innocent meeting will only fill her with more |
| influential people are invited. You want word to | | | | curiosity - how is it that you're doing well without |
| get back to her. Get ready properly for the | | | | her, and how can you possibly sit with her and |
| gathering - spend some time on a tanning bed to | | | | not want to talk about the relationship that she |
| get some good color. Go get a manicure - men's | | | | ended? She'll be anxious to get more information |
| fingernails all too often are the one jarring note on | | | | from you, especially after being unable to get any |
| an otherwise pleasing canvas. And pay attention | | | | during your luncheon meeting! You're at a perfect |
| to the details as well - added together, they | | | | point now - she's ready to get back together, |
| make up the whole. You've undergone some | | | | even if she doesn't openly acknowledge it. Take |
| personal changes, now make some adjustments | | | | your time now - enjoy the time together, and |
| in the way you entertain. Forget the chips and | | | | enjoy the lack of pressure She's so consumed |
| dip - get some interesting exotic finger foods for | | | | by curiosity that when you call again, she'll be |
| your friends to nosh on, and also be sure you | | | | open to pretty much whatever you suggest. |
| have enough of whatever drinks you're serving | | | | Don't overdo it! Be patient - suggest maybe |
| so that you don't run out. Forget about playing | | | | another lunch, or perhaps a daytime social activity |
| the standard CD's - soft and mellow should be | | | | like a museum visit. Even though she might not be |
| your standard for music, preferably music you've | | | | conscious of it, but she's open to the idea of |
| never played for these folks before. You want | | | | getting back together - your job is to be very |
| people to be able to have nice conversations | | | | patient and understanding. And, of course, to have |
| without having to shout at each other. And this is | | | | a great time! |
| essential - make certain that you invite someone | | | | |