Packaging Yourself

I have been fired/let go three times in the past.Packaging is in my blood.
None of these transitions were easy at the time,Get connected. (Very different from keep
but they all aided in my personal development.connected).
Now I'm famous and those who fired me are not.These are the people you want to be with.
I grew, they did not. How did I go fromCreate a special circle: I have a special circle of
anonymous to world-renowned leader,colleagues whom I bounce ideas off of. I don't
entrepreneur and packaging expert extraordinaire?contact them all the time but when I need some
Let me show you my method for packagingadvice that's the first place I turn. Many times this
myself.has turned into additional opportunities to
Promote yourself.collaborate on projects also and build some great
The old adage your mother told you aboutprofessional alliances.
working hard and be good at what you do is aYou are Unique.
nice idea. Unfortunately, it doesn't work when noBe your own person. If any thing I am unique in
one knows what it is you do. We had a programmy persona. This didn't happen overnight. In my
a couple of years ago and one thing stood out inearly career I read all the right books, even
my mind. That people who were considered for"Dress for Success" and was able to extract
promotion was based upon 60% visibility (beingwhat was right for me. When the basic blue-black
noticed by the powers that be) 20% appearance,suit and white button down shirt was the
20% performance and hard work. You do themandate, it wasn't me. That is not my persona.
math. Where is the equity unless you promoteI'm a color person; wear cool funky earrings and
yourself and are recognized as a performer anddress with what I'm comfortable. I never wear
hard worker? My tactics include writing regularheels, although I always carry a pair with me,
press releases, making myself available fordespite all the advice to the contrary about
interviews 2-3 times a month, and speakingwomen must wear heels. This is my persona,
engagements everywhere including Internationally,when I'm working I need to be comfortable so I
with multi language translation (that's anothercan be and function at my very best.
story).Outreach to colleagues regularly.
Accept adventures.I write frequent personal notes when I see
Several years ago I was contacted with andsomeone in the news. Either I email them or send
opportunity to lead a two-week packaging tradethem a copy of the information. I used to use
delegation to China. After some serious thoughtPost It's by my handwriting is so atrocious I
and bouncing it off the WMPKG board members Idesigned a special card that says "I thought you
said OK. They found me, (via the Internet). Wemight find the attached of interest", and has a
were the first of ten professional women's tradespecial place for a hand written note and all my
delegations chosen to participate and the "guineacontact information.
pigs" of the program (but that's another storyUtilize your resources.
too). You may read about the China Trip @Use lateral thinking, my colleague Donna Messer
Common sense prevails.actually named this attribute, I was doing it but
If nothing else I learned how to use my head.didn't even know it. I barter, negotiate everything.
There is simply too much I need to accomplish toI operate under "quid-pro-quo". Every one likes to
agonize over how to get it done. I use The KISSbe recognized, when you write, call or thank me
approach (Keep It Simple Stupid). If I can't find ityou go right to the top of my memory book. I
in a few seconds I'm dead. I deal with way toobelieve and helping those who help me.
much information to remember somethingConversely, when you do something I consider a
complex or to spend a lot of time looking upnegative, I wont go out of my way to help you
something.but more importantly I don't burn my bridges
Keep connected.(You never know).
I always carry business cards. I give them toReputation is paramount.
everyone, on the plane; at the store you name it.Your integrity is critical. Don't stab people in the
After all every one uses/needs packaging and Iback. If you don't like something and can't address
am continuing to package myself using thisit personally do what I do and move that person
method. Make notes on the back of card aboutto the bottom of the list, but not gone (You
the people you meet so you can remembernever know) Respect other people too. Just
something special about them. I am alwaysbecause they don't have a fancy title after their
amazed when I go somewhere the number ofname doesn't mean they are not of import. I
people who don't have cards, especially students. Ialways make it a point of listening to every ones
always tell them the same thing: invest in aopinion
business card on say that you are on the frontStay informed and current in your field.
and say what you need (a job) on the back. (YouI read a dozen of "packaging" magazines a week
never know).and am on countless email packaging news lists.
Ask for help.Become more involved in you industry
I'm always surprised how many people are reallyassociations. I myself, am professional association
willing to give advice and work with me. I bargainjunkie, when could find what needed with the
and negotiate everything; you have nothing toexisting association, I created own. Now I'm not
lose and everything to gain. Remember greatadvocating everyone to do this but it is important
alliances come from a win-win for both partiesto participate within your industry groups. This
and many of my best deals came from simplyincludes going to trade shows. You gotta be there!
asking to work together.Economy is my middle name.
Give of yourself.I have developed all kinds of business tools and
Help others when you can and stay in touch. Theshort cuts to help handle the workload. I get
membership benefit programs of WMPKG werehundreds of email inquiries a week. I use auto
created by me to help (initially other women) toresponders, set up master email lists and use a
find the best jobs, increase their visibility andfax broadcast service. I try not to spend time on
outreach to colleagues in the field. I got so manythe phone; email is my communication tool of
calls from men and women for assistance Ichoice. I'm always trying to become more
needed to find a way to help every one in anefficient with my resources.
efficient manner. I try my best to help everyone,Learn to live with out being liked but respected.
but it is simply a matter of my time andIn my position I have to make some very tough
resources. You help me I help you in return anddecisions every day. Many times people are not
you move to the top of my list. Become ahappy with the outcome. I must remind myself
mentor. I mentor a dozen or so individuals at anyconstantly that it's just business and not personal.
time. Not on a daily basis but when they have a(I have feelings too). When I founded Women in
problem they can always reach me. I have alsoPackaging I was attributed with many not so
participated in formalized programs as a mentor.complimentary descriptions but I didn't let it stop
This is a good way to interact with people outsideme and now I am famous and those individuals
your field of expertise and almost every majorsaying those things are not. Never respond when
city has them.you are angry or upset. This is a personal
Invest in yourself.favorite. I have learned though the years to
Keep tuned in to all the professional and careeralways wait a day before responding to
development opportunities out there. You shouldsomething that upsets me; I'm a very frank, and
never be too busy to learn new tricks. Attendhonest person (The word blunt has been used to
functions at which you can establish a peer group.describe me more than once.) I also use a
But be choosy. Don't just go for the sake ofsounding board. Our excellent Communications
going. Have a clear goal in mind about what youDirector, Michelle Nordlinger writes a superlative
intend to get from your participation and followletter. She is very good at taking my "blunt" copy
up. Remember the #1 rule in networking. Youand toning it down. Find someone with this skill:
have to show up! When you get an opportunityboyfriend, husband, colleague before you write
presented to you, do something about it. Makeyour serious correspondence.
the time.Find out your weakness.
Never give up on your dream.You will never progress if you don't except the
I have had several "careers". I had a veryfact that you have flaws. I have very big
different one before I entered the packaging field.shoulders and have had many knock down drag
Have passion, for what you do, I'm alwaysout confrontations. But I listened to what they
excited when I speak about my industry andhad to say and in many cases they were right. I
could and do go for hours when I'm in front of analways believe that there are two sides to a
interested audience. I'm often advised that mystory.
talents are wasted in what used to be consideredSo this is me, my special package, now go out
a pretty stagnant industry, but what can I do?and create a package for yourself.