If You Can't Schmooze, You Loose

What's networking all about? You have been tooutside or close to the door. This will put you at
events with important people you wanted toan advantage to capture a few minutes attention
meet.before the event gets in full swing.
Yet when the event was over you realized youDon't monopolize the person's time. Ask for a
never had a chance for face time and you camelater meeting if possible.
away nothing. It gave you the general feeling thatSmile at every one and look as if you are
the event was a waste of time. Don't let thatenjoying yourself. You don't want to appear ill at
happen again.ease or desperate for someone to talk too.
You need to have a plan of attack before theWhen greeting someone ask a few icebreaker
event. Spend a few minutes asking yourself whyquestions before getting down to the nitty gritty.
you are attending the event and then strategizeEncourage other people to talk about themselves
to achieve that goal. A few extra minutesor their business.
advance planning will make the event worth yourIf it's appropriate, offer to get somebody a drink.
time.In most cases, it will be a cash bar so be sure to
Inside tips on get the most out of yourcarry plenty of money.
networking:Introduce people as though they were the most
Plan to arrive early. Registered guests will haveimportant people in the world.
name badges. Look at the badges on the table.Never stand between a potential contact and the
They are usually alphabetical order. Peruse thebar.
badges to determine who is coming and whomTry to position yourself under lights where you
you want to meet.are more visible.
Pay special attention to the guest, speaker or VIPBest bet: stand near the food because people are
whose name tags will generally be separated andrelaxed when eating.
have ribbons or some identifying marks. BadgesPresent your business card at the end of the
may be segregated by vendors vs. users too. Soconversation.
don't forget to look for that identification.Practice small talk, get interesting sound bytes
Make a short list of people you want to meet. Itfrom the news that will engage people in initial
is helpful to ask the chairperson in advance toconversation, break the ice then launch into your
mention that you would like to meet some of thepitch.
special guests. If that isn't possible, write a noteRemember the golden words "what in it for me."
on the back of your business card and leave it on(That would be the person you are talking to. not
the person's name tag asking for a few minutesyourself).
of time.Keep these tips in mind as you schmooze your
If you're hoping to meet one person in particular,way into a successful relationship.
and you know what the person looks like, wait